The girls turned o n e on the 22nd and I’m in complete denial that an entire year has passed since I had these cuties. I’ve been having so much fun looking back at where we were a year ago last Christmas and how much has changed since then. How do you summarize the craziest, best, exhausting, scary, amazing, challenging year of your life? You can’t, and I’ll never be able to. All I can say is that we made it. We survived the first year with twins. It’s supposed to get easier now right? Ha…everyone keeps saying that and I think there’s nothing easy about having twins. B U T…I will say this …I wouldn’t want it any other way.
We’ve been pretty healthy since hand foot and mouth disease took over our Thanksgiving…and then Christmas came and what would the holidays be without another sickness. This time, the tummy bug for both girls and momma. Thankfully it was only a couple of days, but really, there’s nothing worse than waking up to the sound of your poor baby getting sick. So sad.
We had our one year check up on their birthday, which I will never do again. What mom schedules shots and a 2 hour visit on a birthday? Our visits aren’t usually that long but being before the holidays and several tests required at a first year visit, it took a very long time. Thank God we have amazing girls who are happy just about anywhere if Cheerios are involved.
They checked out great, growing well and healthy. They’re both still in the 5% for weight and height. June was 17.3lb and Faith was 17.9lb, little girls and probably always will be, but they’re growing at an ideal rate which is the important part.
I got the go ahead to try dairy in my diet to see if it affects the girls so we promptly ordered pizza for dinner that night. Man it was good!! Once we figure out if they can have dairy, we’ll start weaning with adding either whole milk or a supplement like almond or soy. I’m PRAYING that the milk allergy is gone!
Both girls have their 2 bottom teeth, and I absolutely melt every time they smile and I see those little suckers. They’re still teething like crazy, which I’m sure will be ongoing for the next year or so. No sign of any more popping through yet.
We are still dealing with tantrums but I’m pretty sure this will be a constant struggle as we enter toddlerhood (do I have toddlers now? What!?). I’m constantly refereeing. One minute they’re laughing and kissing each other, the next they’re pulling hair and slamming each other onto the only hard toy in the room, that happens to be right below their head. There are so many tears in this house, but somehow we make it to the end of the day with only minor (usually) bumps and scrapes.
The girls aren’t walking yet but standing all the time, pulling up on anything they can get their hands on…every toy, the sofa, a pillow, dresser, cribs, momma, sister. They also try to climb everything and have zero fear of landing smack on their head. June is walking with her push toy with the biggest smile on her face looking for someone to watch her and cheer. Faith will push it on her knees. Actually, Faith will push anything across the room on her knees, whether it has wheels or not, while making a motorboat noise. It’s pretty adorable.
June’s favorite thing is music, hands down. The minute she hears a tune she MUST stop what she’s doing and sway or bop up and down. She doesn’t even change her facial expression; it’s as if she’s thinking “music, oh I have to dance now, this is my job”. My parents got them a ukulele and a percussion set for their birthday and they absolutely love it!
Faith has also started dancing a little bit (if you want to call it that, more like jerk her body every which direction nearly giving herself whiplash). She’s more into books than anything else. The minute she wakes up she crawls straight for the books and inspects each one, turning pages, and “talking” in a monotone voice like she’s reading. It’s so sweet. She’ll also push a book over to me, crawl in my lap, put her fingers in her mouth (yes, she’s still doing that) and “ask” me to read. I MELT.
Ugh. Do we have to talk about this? Yes, because I look back at these posts often to see where we were and when. That and it’s probably one of the top questions people ask me, “how do they sleep?” and “do you get any sleep” which is technically the same question.
Since being sick last month, Faith is back to sleeping through the night. I love her for being such a great sleeper. She makes me feel like we’re doing something right. June wakes up pretty much every night…still, and I love her for that because if I’m being honest, I miss them the minute they go to bed and all I want to do is snuggle their sweet cuddly, tired bodies. June fulfills this need and then some! Once she got over being sick, she went through a nursing strike and would wake up all night starving. Once we got through it, she was so used to eating through the night and still relied on it, so we had to do a bit of sleep training with her and wean her from feeding through the night. Then she was doing great and got a tummy bug so back to waking all night. It’s always something with this girl. As cute as she is in the middle of the night, baby girl needs to sleep, for our sake and hers.
They’re still going to bed around 6:30pm and they get up around 7/7:30am. They also still take 2 naps, one around 9/9:30 and one around 1/1:30. I thought for a split second that they were trying to go down to 1 nap, which would be pretty early to do that, but then I realized they just didn’t want to nap period. They still very much need their 2 naps and they’re now going down pretty well for both.
Still huge eaters over here (except for when they had the stomach bug which of course clued me into something being wrong). They eat 3 meals a day plus a snack or two…sometimes 4 meals a day. I can’t keep up with them! They shovel anything and everything I put in front of them. I hope this lasts and I don’t have to deal with picky eaters! They love any kind of fruit, except raspberries…they make a weird face, which makes me want to give them to them more because it’s hilarious! I’m so mean, I know. They also still love broccoli, carrots, squash and any other veggie they’ve tried. Protein is kind of tough because they don’t really like meat. They’ll eat it but I think it’s hard for them to eat with only 2 teeth. So they eat a lot of beans, peanut butter, eggs, and I sometimes throw quinoa if they’re having a puree, for protein.
They’re also still breastfeeding 6 times a day…ya’ll I’m more than ready to start weaning. I still can’t drop a feed without them screaming and following me around, even if I replace it with a meal. They’ve also been even more attached to me lately and I haven’t even started weaning, so they’re clearly not emotionally ready. It will take a while, I know, but we have to start somewhere so I said goodbye to my pump. HALLELUJAH!! For the past year, I had also been pumping before bed to store milk for bottles if they need them. The doctor said to not use bottles (to avoid having to wean from those as well), only sippy cups, and since they won’t drink my milk from a sippy anyway, there’s no point in pumping anymore. Merry Christmas to me!
A question I got a lot was about having a big party for their birthday. For a lot of reasons, we decided not to. The main reason is that our house is too small to even host a small get together indoors and doing something at a rented space is too much for us to take on right now. We don’t want to downplay their birthday or especially get in a habit of letting Christmas overshadow the celebration, but this year we’re just laying low and saving our energy (and money) for larger parties in the coming years when they’re more likely to remember it, and able to handle the attention from lots of people! I totally have mom guilt from this decision, but we know that every time we take on more than we can handle we really regret it.
We did have our parents over the afternoon of their birthday for presents and cupcakes. They dug into their cupcakes like it was going to be taken away from them if they didn’t eat it fast enough. And then we paid for it that night. They went down fine at bedtime but poor Faithy woke up vomiting a few times (our first sign the stomach bug was visiting our house), which then woke up June. Neither of them would go back down, they were absolutely wired. We tried pack n plays in our room…no dice. They eventually went to sleep in their cribs but it took a long time. It reminded me of their first night at home as newborns when they would just NOT SLEEP and we looked at each other like, “what do we do?”
We just finished our swim lessons at the Y and I’m sure we’ll be signing up for it again in the next few months. They really enjoyed it and I think it’s helped make them more comfortable in the bath as well as being in the water with others, not just mom and dad. They tried on life vests for the first time a couple of weeks ago and I’m huge on making sure they’re comfortable in them. I grew up on a lake and it was a non negotiable to wear them when playing in the water there when I was young, a rule I’ll also enforce with my littles.
We got a membership to the Children’s Museum of Richmond for the girls’ birthday and we’ve already been at least once a week since. The girls love it there and it’s a nice change of scenery for us, especially on cold rainy days that force us to stay indoors.
We’ve also been getting together with other kiddos pretty regularly. I’m a member of our area’s Moms of Multiples group and have met some amazing friends through it. I seriously don’t know how I’d make it through this year without them. I tell everyone I know who is pregnant with twins to get involved with their local organization if they have one.
It’s been so much fun recapping and looking back at these monthly updates, but I’m not going to continue them every month going forward. I may do an update on the here or there, but not every month like I did for their first year. Be sure to follow my Instagram @kelleylively and Facebook page for more frequent updates.